Prince UnCharming?
To say that the dating scene is something I love would be obvious. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not a girl that always needs a boyfriend back to back. I love the love. Its only natural. So I recently got into a relationship...and I really had this feeling like he was THE ONE. Like the prince that every little dreams about. I liked that we were friends first and then started dating. I like that he is religious...but there's so many doubts that fill my mind. I'm not so sure that he is the prince to my awesome princessness. He may be Rumpelstiltskin to my...Princess Ana of Arrendale (Disney reference). For as sad as it is, I haven't had that amazing Honeymoon stage yet with him. I haven't gotten butterflies with him yet. And things that seem obvious he doesn't do.
For example, I was quite upset because a girl called me an ugly fag. So as an average girl does, I went running to him, thinking he would cheer me up. Dreaming he will hold me and hug me and say I am beautiful and not to listen to her. But does he...no. With my friends in the room, he says Oh that's mean. I'm sorry. That's all you can give me? He's had girlfriends before so it should be a known thing when a girl is upset. When approaching him later about it too, he seemed to give me excuses, such as "We were sitting on the bed and I would've had to climb over them to get to you." I really don't know how much effort he is putting into this.
For any girl reading this, do not let your boyfriend call you pretty. You are more than that and you deserve the beauty inside you to be appreciated. Sadly, he hasn't noticed mine. I'm giving it a month...More unfortunately hilarious stories to come. In the meantime, its just me and my pillow pet, Simba. Pray for me...
Always trust your instinct. If someone isn't treating you exactly as you want to be treated, he's not the one. That guy is out there... Just waiting to meet you.
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